My boyfriend does drugs, should I tell his parents?
My boyfriend does drugs. He use to be an alcoholic. He started drinking when he was 13 and stopped when he was 21 because he got a DUI. Should I tell his parents about his drug marijuana problem it seems like its getting too much out of control. He is 23 and he goes to grad school. ...
My boyfriend does drugs.
He use to be an alcoholic. He started drinking when he was 13 and stopped when he was 21 because he got a DUI. Should I tell his parents about his drug marijuana problem it seems like its getting too much out of control.
He is 23 and he goes to grad school.
He’s 23 and in grad school? Sounds like he’s a fully functioning pot smoker. I mean, he did manage to graduate undergrad and get accepted into a grad program. I fail to see how that’s out of control. It doesn’t sound like he has an addictive personality either: he flat out QUIT drinking after a DUI despite the fact that he’s an alcoholic (there’s no "was" involved in alcoholism.)
If you’re worried, you talk to him, not his parents. If he truly is, as you say, "out of control," and something like an intervention is necessary, then you talk to his parents.
Yes and then threaten to leave him if he doesn’t quit because he will never change if u don’t. Drugs are so 80′s
no dont tell his parents
really
i used every drug
and i didnt
got
addicted
i know thats creepy
i never did heroine
Handle with care. I would recommend advising his parents not to tell where they recieved their information. If he does find out you tell him the truth. You didn’t want him messing up his life and that you care. If he loves you he will understand that you did it for the best. If he is angery then you need to find someone else that you don’t have to fix. Help him if he is willing
Just get out of that relationship
I have had the exact same problem before but the drug was far worse then pot. I would not tell his parents because it is not really your place to do so. If you really do not like this about him, you need to leave him. Tell him you do not like him using drugs and tell him he needs to choose between you and the drugs. If he cannot do so or lies about it then leave him.
IMMEDIATELY
He needs help…
he’s 23. he’s in grad school. absolutely not. if you have an issue with his drug use, find another boyfriend.
Hi Cindy:
Please take what I am saying to heart. You stated he was an alcoholic and now he is smoking pot. Well, all he did was exchange one drug for another one. A Drug is a Drug is a Drug. More than likely his parents already know what is going on with him. My concern is for you because you are experiencing his changes in attitudes and behaviors that is what happens when and addict changes her/his drug of choice.
I wouldn’t say anything to his family unless they asked. As for your relationship it is probably go to a Nar-A-Non meeting in order to cope and to have someone else to relate your situation. Good Luck.
A person with a history of substance abuse can be like a ticking time bomb. Any overly stressful event can cause them to relapse. If you leave him he will probablly become worse. You need to tell his family and have an intervention. Perhaps together you can talk him into going into a drug rehab program.